Scottsdale, Arizona - Let's talk about dating as a cancer survivor. Entering into a new relationship can be a challenge with or without a cancer diagnosis. Dealing with the emotional and physical changes that may have come with your cancer diagnosis can add to the situation. Many people find that dating after a diagnosis of cancer can be a much different experience than before a cancer diagnosis.

A few of the challenges might be:

• Dealing with physical changes from effects of surgery or treatment
• Living with fear of recurrence
• How to tell someone new that you have a cancer history
• Fear of a negative reaction
• Changes in fertility
• Sexual intimacy concerns

However challenging this is, you may also find that you have positive changes that may impact new relationships. These may include:

• A new sense of knowing exactly what you want and need from a relationship
• An appreciation of time spent with others
• A renewed interest in establishing a long-term relationship with a life partner

You may be interested in dating again, but concerned about the first steps in meeting someone new. Here are a few ideas to get you started:

• Get involved in social activities in your community — taking that first step is important (art and music events, group outings, festivals, sporting events, etc.)
• Talk to other survivors about their experiences with dating
• If you have emotional concerns that have not been addressed, connect with a counselor or peer support group to work through any negative emotions and fears
• Explore ideas on how you might communicate your history of cancer to a new person — practice with a friend who knows you well.